trans | More than pronouns....

Ok. So a couple of things have occurred to me in the last week or so that I've been thinking a lot about. Granted I've been moody as hell because my devil brother has come back for a few weeks to reap havoc on my life. Well the other day when I was avoiding my family I was out with some friends. We were having a good chat and apparently it was noticeable that I was a bit irritated. So my best friend then told me, "Quit being such a dick..." and It really pissed me off. The words 'dick' and 'asshole' have always seemed so masculine to me. I even take them worse than when my friends use male pronouns. I'd so rather be called a bitch, whore, or slut than to be referred to either of those names above... I should add I'd hate to be called any names, I'm just set off worse by others.....

Anyone else have such problems or am I really just way too extra moody?