Groups or lists for epeople who are involved with transgendered people

[scorpionturtle.livejournal.com]

I keep on dating and getting in relationshipsand friendships with transgendered people. These are wonderful experiences but I would like a group or something i can post to about the problems I've had with other dykes or hets over my attraction and friendship with transpeople. I surprised at the hostility I get from some dyke about liking tranny bois and trans men and I find that het people taend to make the assumption that I am really straight. Also I can not stand how everyone is always screaming for acceptance of genderqueers and bi-trans but why is it not ok for me to like ftms and mtfs. If I gender can be fluid why not our sexuality-why is it so frightening to people. and why is it frightening to people that are already getting treated bad for thier own sexual preferences? and I also hate how some people seem to think that a non-trans dyke can't be just friends with a trans person.anyways if anyone has links i would really be happy to get them. thanks