Friendships changing

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Had coffee with one of my longest running friends yesterday...and while she was fair and relatively non-judgmental it was clear that thinsg were no longer as they were. She said that I had changed the past years...and that there was a gap in understanding. .as she spoke of others in my life I realise that there is also..none of my close friends have deserted me..but there is an understanding gap... Perhaps they were friendships formed in a different era under different circumstances...Feel that in a few cases the recession could be terminal. But on the other hand I realise that friends I do make now are likely to be more honest and more likely to be sustained..I am more likely now to attract the right people for me...and I'm optimistic about the future!... Just wondering about the fate of friendships of others after coming out!....How did your friendships evolve?. I'm out since about January!