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 hello again!  I've read lots of memories and used a lot of suggestions on this, but nothing has really helped.  

my boyfriend and i have always had a very active and fulfilling sex life.  not only that, but to be completely honest, he's the ABSOLUTE best of my life.  he came out to me two weeks in, so i have always been aware of the situation with body parts and sexuality and such.  the problem is, that after all this time of having sex and all that jazz, all of a sudden he's not interested.  i have tried ignoring it, waiting til he's ready, and all that, but he's never ready.  i feel like if i don't initiate it , its never gonna happen.  i don't mean to sound stupid, or like sex is the most important thing in our relationship, but during a time when so much other stuff is going on that we have no control over, it would be reassuring if this wasn't so different.  i guess my question is, has anyone's boyfriend/parter lost their sex drive when they started T, rather that having it go up?

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thanks guys. he's not on anything else really, but he takes a lot of vitamins and is a HUGE nutrition freak. i was wondering if there might be any links with that. he does get super hardcore about working out, moreso than normal after his shot, and i was wondering if its possible to "use up" that extra drive.