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Ok, one of the ongoing issues in my life is my fear of femininity, of the expectations around femininity, the presumption that as a woman that I must be feminine etc.
I know it might seem crazy but whilst I have some idea of what femininity means to me, since my perceptions are so screwed up this might not be what other people mean by femininity. So these are my questions:
1. What does femininity mean to you?
2. What is it about someone that makes them feminine?
3. What aspects of femininity are related to?
a. how someone appears
b. what they do
c. reflections of their inner personality
4. How much is femininity an intangible quality?

I would be very interested in your answers as I find these questions almost impossible to answer myself.

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