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transTomorrow I have to attend christmas service with my father. I identify as FtM and have never really dressed like a female... not since I was about 9... old enough to pick out my own clothes without my father's permission.
My brother asked me what I was wearing tonight and I told him basically that I had no intentions of changing how I dress to appease my father, and that didn't go over too well. My father speaks ill-ly of me in mixed company cause I don't adhere tothe RLDS form of gender dress.
My brother informed me that tomorrow is a big day for my father and I suppose, for once, I can dress as a female... the problem is, I don't know exactly what is "in" today, or really what will be more feminine then masculine.
I own no skirts, no dresses (shit, I don't shave my legs, those would both be out anyways), and I am unsure if nice jeans and a dressy top would make it.
So I figured, why not come to a forum where people spend time trying to perfect the female dress. If anyone could be so kind as to give advice on how to appear more feminine then I do... I'd appreciate it. And yes, I do have boobs, but I don't know what to do with them, and yes I guess by default I have some form of feminine look to me... but honestly, I don't... I don't quite know what to do here or there... to appear more feminine.
Any help would be great!
Thanks
JJ
My brother asked me what I was wearing tonight and I told him basically that I had no intentions of changing how I dress to appease my father, and that didn't go over too well. My father speaks ill-ly of me in mixed company cause I don't adhere tothe RLDS form of gender dress.
My brother informed me that tomorrow is a big day for my father and I suppose, for once, I can dress as a female... the problem is, I don't know exactly what is "in" today, or really what will be more feminine then masculine.
I own no skirts, no dresses (shit, I don't shave my legs, those would both be out anyways), and I am unsure if nice jeans and a dressy top would make it.
So I figured, why not come to a forum where people spend time trying to perfect the female dress. If anyone could be so kind as to give advice on how to appear more feminine then I do... I'd appreciate it. And yes, I do have boobs, but I don't know what to do with them, and yes I guess by default I have some form of feminine look to me... but honestly, I don't... I don't quite know what to do here or there... to appear more feminine.
Any help would be great!
Thanks
JJ
