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i am doing a work shop on trans body image and i feel like i should know more about how trans women feel. specifically i am looking for ways that pre-op or non-op MTF refer to their genitalia in a way that makes them feel comfortable.so far everyone i have talked to says they don't refer to it at all. any help would be greatly appreciated. feel free to email me at d171057@hotmail.com thanks