advice needed.

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Let me apologize ahead of time if I use a politically incorrect phrase, word, line, etc. I'm extremely new to this all. my girlfriend that i have known for 5 years now is starting to think that she might be a TG. I am very supportive of this but I have a feeling I might be doing something wrong. While she is exploring the subject and herself more in depth I keep telling her that maybe if she joined more of the group activities she enjoyed, built some more muscle mass, filled out the body she has the way she liked...etc... she might feel more comfortable with who she is. So in other words, im basically telling her that she might not be a tg...that maybe she should explore the other options before going to that extreme- and by extreme, I dont mean it as a bad thing in any way. For those of you that i havent lost yet in my rambling my question is this... How can I support her better as she begins to explore and make this transition? I know its a long road and any advice is always welcome and very much needed. Thanks for your time!

<3 Jamie