Student Housing - advice needed

[elizabeth1010.livejournal.com]

My school is changing housing (the place I'm in is in foreclosure, awesome). I new place is shared bedroom. They also use two other apartments for student living, which are separated by gender. I called today to see what concessions they made for trans students and got a big fat, "Well, I don't know, let me get back to you." I get a phone call a few minutes later and I'm now have a meeting setup with the director of housing tomorrow morning to "see what my needs are" and stuff.

Umm, anyone got any advice? I don't know what to say other than I refuse to live in a male-only dorm, am not anywhere near passable enough to stay in a woman's dorm, and absolutely refuse to share a bedroom and bathroom with a stranger. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.