[identity profile] tygersharkluvr.livejournal.com
I really hope I get the cut right I'm still really new to this and the only Internet I have now is my phone just getting this posted twice counting here between and during errands has taken all day. I have a meeting discussing the possibility of acomidations tomorrow, Monday 9th, that I can tell they don't want to give me. I need to get them to understand why these things are reasonable and even necessary. If anyone could offer ANY help I would REALLY appreciate it! I realize there is a lot of stuff and don't expect anyone to answer a large majority of it but any input would help!Read more... )
[identity profile] elizabeth1010.livejournal.com
My school is changing housing (the place I'm in is in foreclosure, awesome). I new place is shared bedroom. They also use two other apartments for student living, which are separated by gender. I called today to see what concessions they made for trans students and got a big fat, "Well, I don't know, let me get back to you." I get a phone call a few minutes later and I'm now have a meeting setup with the director of housing tomorrow morning to "see what my needs are" and stuff.

Umm, anyone got any advice? I don't know what to say other than I refuse to live in a male-only dorm, am not anywhere near passable enough to stay in a woman's dorm, and absolutely refuse to share a bedroom and bathroom with a stranger. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
[identity profile] mutated-queer.livejournal.com
Since starting transitioning medically I've lived with another trans person. But now she's having to leave, the rent is too much here anyway so I'm looking for a new flat & flatmates. I need them to be ok with trans stuff- I self inject T and will have needles (I don't want them seeing them and thinking I'm on drugs or something), I can't bind in the flat because my ribs are screwed and I'll have having top surgery within the year. I can't deal with the stresses of having someone who had comments or doesn't respect my gender or outs me but being stealth isn't really an option either.

I doubt anyone I know will be looking for a new flatmate so I'll be hitting the websites and notice boards. How would you deal with making sure they are cool in such a situation? I'm thinking on posts mentioning it would be the best idea so they know before contacting me but then I feel like I'm making a big deal of it.

cheers for any ideas
[identity profile] actoholic.livejournal.com
So I moved in. There is so much I want to say about this place but my brain has it all scattered and jumbled so I'm just gonna get out what I can manage to right now.

Everybody's room is required to have nametags on the door for the people living in the room, at all times. This scared me. Also, I live on a coed floor. Turns out that became I live with a couple rooms of girls and the entire guys LAX team. That scared me even more.

On the more positive side, my floor has semi-private bathrooms, meaning they are all individual, lockable, and gender neutral. This is a huge plus. Also, the floor being coed means that I won't look out of place wandering around here at all hours.

On my second day I had a heart to heart with my roommate, which in retrospect I really should have done before asking her to be my roommate at all. Anyway, after much hesitating and rambling and stuttering, I came out to her. I explained pretty much what was up with my life, and SHE WAS TOTALLY COOL WITH IT. We changed my nametag on the door, and she went with me to tell the RA that was what I would be going by and to please leave it up there. My roommate is essentially the nicest person ever. She's open minded as hell and curious and sweet. Example A, yesterday she declared herself my SOFFA,and wrote on our white board "(insert her name here) is a couch," the little darling. She's been diligent about my name and pronouns and seems to be getting comfortable with that really fast.

More awesome stuff about school and other trans-y things, but that will come later. I need a nap SO BAD before my next class.

Peace y'all.
[identity profile] belleza-mia.livejournal.com
I'm currently in college and my roommate was FTM, but he just moved out. For next semester I'm trying to find someone else trans-friendly to move in or else I'll move closer to my school and live with people who dont know. In other words, I'd be stealth.

Has anyone ever done this before? I feel like it would be really stressful because I'm non-op and I have some body/facial hair which I shave, but it does continue to grow. I would not share a bedroom, I would only share a bathroom.

Any experiences with this? How dangerous is it if I only live with womyn? Ay, its too much to worry about! It's times like these that make me wish even more that I werent trans.

*EDIT* Just to clarify, I live as a womon and everyone at school sees me that way.

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