Asexual visability?

[teichan.livejournal.com]

I always see posts that talk about sexuality pop up, sometimes in survey form. . and when you get down to the details of it all, it's hard not to feel like you're standing in the corner of the room when ( seemingly ) everyone around you knows the kinds of things their attracted to, while you barely know anything about yourself. Hell, I'm going on 20 and I haven't even dated someone, let alone kissed. Although I'm not sure how comfortable I'd be trading bodily fluids with another individual. Putting it that way, others might not know, either.

Saving you from a wall of text, are there any other asexuals out there, whether or not you're transgendered? I've been meaning to do a thicker post about it, but I'm pretty sure there's more than enough people that could do a better job of it. That, and I'm curious how visable asexuals are in the LGBT community ( for lack of better concept. . ), and of how lonely I may or may not be. ^^;

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[miastarr.livejournal.com]

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[xposted to ftm, quenderqueer and torontoqueers]

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[stephtheb.livejournal.com]

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