Recent conversation with female friend as best as I can recollect it. "Well, you must be bi-sexual. I mean you say that Shelley is."
"Yes, Shelley is, I'm not."
"But that makes no sense."
"It makes perfect sense to me. I have prohibitions about using certain body parts for certain purposes. If I go all the way I'll have all the parts, and, likely my perspective will change."
today I was ambushed with a barage of questions about my gender.
the one thing that I noticed was that as soon as they get past the "OMG WTF YOU WANNA CHOP OFF DA WEE WEE??!?!?! OMG!>!?!??!!!?!111?!?!?one?!!" they're usually much more civil and respectfull.
SRS is not what comes first, and it's not what should be talked about first, but they always get hung up on it.
has anyone else noticed this?
does anyone have any suggestions as to how to guide a conversation away from this till later without saying that I don't want it?