Head Against Wall...BANG...BANG...BANG

[shelleybear.livejournal.com]

Phooey!
For the past several weeks I have not shaved with the usual effect.
Why?
A recent windfall is making it possible for me to visit my 84 year-old mom in Florida.
I see no point in hurting her by letting telltale signs of my current decision and mindset manifest.
But what has gotten to me is my girlfriend talking about my large, furry body. Eight months ago this would not have bothered me that much. Now?
Well see subject.

some facial feminization surgery questions

[opiumprincess.livejournal.com]

I'm trying to decide who to see, and I really don't know how to go
about picking. Initially I planned on seeing Dr. Ousterhout, but I've
seen some pretty scary horror-stories about his surgeries online in a
few places.

I've looked into Suporn briefly, and he's probably impressed the most,
but I admit I don't know all that much about this.

Someone locally recommended Dr. Zukowski, but it seemed he didn't
really do as many different surgeries as Ousterhout & Suporn.

Assuming money wasn't an issue, who would you suggest seeing? Why?

How long is the wait list for Ousterhout? Suporn? Anyone else that you
suggest?

I also don't know for sure what I want to get done-- is this typical?
Should I have a good idea of what I want done before talking to
doctors? Or is it typical to have them assist in suggesting what you
might benefit from?