Klatoo Verata Nich*cough*cough*!

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"There. I said the words. It's done then."
I told my fiancee that I was not a man. She agreed. ha ha
I told my fiancee that I really liked dressing as a woman. She said that I do pass for a decent girl.
I told my fiancee that I am a woman. She said, "Yes. I know."
...and all was right with the world.Untill....
"Wait, just how much of a woman...?"
I haven't got the time to go into all the details, but she started to go into how would we tell our children(which we have none). How will I be able to keep a decent job. How will I ever be expected to 100% pass with my body build.
Then she told me, "I am not a lesbian." This floored me. After these words she said that one day she might be able to live with me as a woman, but right now she likes certain parts of me. Certain pointy parts.
Then, she made me watch Eddie Izzard, to see that you can have your cake and penis too. She has fantasies about me dressed as a school girl, or cheerleader, yet she can't imagine it with out junk hidden under the skirt? I am so confussed.
She seems to accept the mental side of my feelings, and the physical to some degree, but keeps making my head swim with how far I should or should not go.
I told her my life my body, but then learned it was best to stop that line after this caused a rant.
I love her but she is really confusing me. Anyone got any advice?

two communities that i think would be useful

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I looked through the list of all ftm-related communities, but couldn't find communities that address either of these needs. So I decided to ask about them here.

A) I think a community for trans issues in women's colleges would be useful.
(I'm not posting this on the ftm community because I don't want to get flamed about this. The fact that trans students attend women's colleges is something that /happens/, no matter how people may feel about it, and I'd like to be able to talk about the challenges/joys that attending a women's college brings up in a safe forum. We could also talk politics, for example, how to convince administration offices that mtfs should be considered.)

B) A community for transfolk and allies who are deaf, hard of hearing, codas, interpreters, etc. There's a disabled trans community, but the issues that deaf people face are often different than the issues that, say, wheelchair-bound people face.

My question: Is there sufficient interest in either one of these communities to justify starting one or both?

GenderQueer Revolution at LA Outfest: ALEXIS ARQUETTE: SHE'S MY BROTHER

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A Perfect Pairing! An Unprecedented Collaboration!

Outfest, in collaboration with
GenderQueer Revolution, proudly presents

Alexis Arquette: She's My Brother
Saturday, July 14, 2 PM
Directors Guild of America

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Supporting and Empowering GenderQueer, Genderfabulous Beings.

Celebrating Gender-Giftedness in Every One...

Beyond Labels. Beyond Gender. Beyond Arbitrary Distinctions and Divisions...

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FTM_International_AFLOAT: New Online Discussion for Friends & Family of FTMs!

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Please forward widely!

New Resource for the Allies, Friends, Loved Ones, and Tribe of FTMs!
Visit http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FTM_International_AFLOAT

AFLOAT stands for "Allies, Friends, Loved Ones, and Tribe,"
The partners, parents, children, families, and friends of FTMs
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