Trans status military obligation

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First off... Oh F**K!

I served for six honorable years in the service, and patiently waited for them to be over to start transitioning. I was told I had two years of inactive ready reserve which would last until beginning of 2011. The impression I got was it was highly unlikely unless a serious problem came up I would ever have to worry about a recall. So I started transition, now as a mtf I'm setting today with a C-cup trained voice, zero male clothing, changed drivers license name and gender marker with conflicting name and gender markers for SS and birth certificate (because of surgical requirements).

Today I received in the mail an order to muster, it's a day long update of paperwork and medical information. I don't conflict with current don't ask don't tell policy. But I'm about to panic, the idea of spending the day with some of the most right winged people in this country particularly as fully out trans female. My worst fear is somehow losing my honorable discharge to this. If anyone has any possible advice please help! A search has come up empty as it seems this doesn't happen often.

P.S. I couldn't find any other relevant groups to cross post this too.