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there is a girl i met at a gay club awhile back who sent me a text message out of nowhere earlier today... she's straight (as far as i know) and has no idea that i am trans... hell, we met in a dark, loud club and she was a little tipsy at the time... she remembers me though and wants to give me a rather sexual birthday gift (if y'all know what i mean)... what should i do?... i'm with someone now so receiving said sexual gift is out of the question, but i would like to hang out with her because she seems pretty cool... should i simply turn down the "gift" and move forward has friends (knowing that she wants something more... physically at least) or should i out myself as trans and then try to move forward as friends (i repeat... the "gift" is out of the question)?... feedback would be much appreciated fellas...

- ted

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