Sep. 20th, 2005

[identity profile] serielle.livejournal.com
I've decided to move out.

The continued stress of living at home simply isn't worth it anymore. I came home about two and a half weeks ago, with the intention of starting laser for my face, amoung other things, but promptly got into an argument with my mother about it as she felt I had more important things to do that work on my transition. I don't care how important you think something might be, you don't threaten your child with stopping their transition if they don't agree with you.

I'm so worn out dealing with her. She doesn't understand how important transitioning is for me, and she simply refuses to let me make my own decisions. I've been arguing with her about it forever, and her stance had remained the same: if she tells me to do something, I'm not allowed to refuse under any circumstances, because it doesn't matter what the hell I think, she knows better.

And then she wonders why I'm not happy. Maybe you could try listening to what I say will make me happy once in a while...

So, I talk to her tommorow, and tell her I want out. I don't imagine it will be easy. I don't imagine she'll be pleased in the slightest. She does honestly mean the best for me, and unfortunatly I'm going to be doing the complete opposite of what she believes would be the best for me. I asked her to understand, and she couldn't. That's forgivable. I asked her to trust me, and she refused. I don't know if that's forgivable, it concievably is, but I'm not going to stick around while she tries to lead my life in a way that I think is harmful for me.

I'm going to be dissapointing her tommorow. There will probably be either crying, or yelling tommorow. More than that I can't predict how she'll react, but I'm far past hoping for a peaceful solution.

I may or may not lose financial support. Things will get complicated if she refuses to pay for me anymore. My transition could possibly end up being delayed, which ironically is what I hoped to prevent by moving out.

Wish me luck.

It's going to be one hell of a day.
[identity profile] radargrrl.livejournal.com
This ad has made myself, and a few other T's, unamused. To me, it screams CHASERS!

What do you think?

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Transsexual Night

Night events will go as follows!

7:00 to 9:00 - Transsexual movie will be playing on the big screen TV;
these movies will not be porno's. There will be a different movie each
month.

9:30 to 10:00 – Mini transsexual show (three performers)

11:00 to 11:30 – Mini transsexual show (three performers)

1:00 to 1:30 – Mini transsexual show depending on how the evening
plays out.


In between the show sets we hope that you will mingle and meet with
others and there will be a DJ spinning dance tunes all night long for
your dancing pleasure.

Private dances will be available in the back booths and you will be
informed of the girl's who are doing the private dancing.
We hope that Transsexual Night will become something very strong and
popular for all who come. We especial hope that it becomes very
popular with the T-Girls and their admirers.
Transsexual Night will be a very relaxing and fun environment to meet
T-Girls or for whatever else catches your eye.
A lot of people who will be coming out to Transsexual Night will be
there on a social basis, which is the spirit of this event. It is also
a great place for bisexuals, voyeurs and exhibitionists.
And definitely a place to let your hair down and just be yourself and
have a blast.
The first Monday of every month from 7:00pm until bar closing. 246b
Queen Street, lower level.
Very discrete and private entrance on the side of the building, lots
of free parking on the street or in the parking lot next to the side
entrance.
WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? COME JOIN IN ON THE FUN!
Transsexual Night is for adults only and there are no drugs or smoking
allowed.
THERE WILL BE NO FILMING OR PICTURE TAKING AT ANY OF THESE EVENTS
Cover Charge

Couples: Male/Female $50.00

Males: (single) $20.00

Females: (single) $10.00

Transsexuals (MtF or FtM), Shemales, Transvestites, Crossdressers,
Drag Queens, etc $5.00

Once again I hope to see you all out having the time of your life and
if you have any questions or concerns please email me back and I will
be happy to help you in anyway.
There still are a few positions open that we need filled before the
night start so if your interested please get back to me.
Positions are:
Door Person: Will collect cover charge at door.
Waitress/Shooter girl: (MtF only) must have smart serve.

See you all on the 3rd.
Always Gia

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Resources!

Sep. 20th, 2005 01:19 pm
[identity profile] venules.livejournal.com
Hello!

I'm working on a local international film festival and right now I am in the process of creating a "media martketplace" for people to attend after they view the films to further inform themselves on the issues presented in the movie (many of the films fall into the area of human rights/activism). The particular film that brought me to this community is 100% Woman, a Canadian documentary about Michelle Dumaresq, the first openly transgendered woman in the world to be named to a national team in any sport.

Anyway, I was wondering if anyone here had any good resources (support, educational, etc) to use in the info-fair. It would be really appreciated. The resources can be obtained from anywhere in the world as well because a global perspective is always appreciated. Thank you!
[identity profile] soquili-gitli.livejournal.com
Ah, the HMO tango. )
kthxbai

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