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Feb. 2nd, 2006 04:53 pmCrossposted to
mtf and my own journal
Last August I told my wife that I am transgendered. We were supposed to move to across the country a week later but I didn't want her to commit to such a thing without telling her everything about myself. After I told her, I still moved away, but she stayed behind. Now, next month I am supposed to move back to where she is. She wants to get therapy and work things out with me, but hasn't really told me what she means by that. I am scared that she wants things to just go back to the way they used to be before she knew, even though I am now pretty much out of the closet as trans and I don't want to go back into hiding. I have written a letter telling her how I feel. I am posting it here so that I can maybe get some feedback. Does anyone have any suggestions on things I should add or take out? Thank you.
( The Letter )
Last August I told my wife that I am transgendered. We were supposed to move to across the country a week later but I didn't want her to commit to such a thing without telling her everything about myself. After I told her, I still moved away, but she stayed behind. Now, next month I am supposed to move back to where she is. She wants to get therapy and work things out with me, but hasn't really told me what she means by that. I am scared that she wants things to just go back to the way they used to be before she knew, even though I am now pretty much out of the closet as trans and I don't want to go back into hiding. I have written a letter telling her how I feel. I am posting it here so that I can maybe get some feedback. Does anyone have any suggestions on things I should add or take out? Thank you.
( The Letter )